11 Facts Every Girl Should Know before the First Love Making

September 27, 2017

When a girl has no sex experience, the process unfamiliar to her seems to be mysterious and scary. Such a woman-to-be usually has a lot of questions. Although grown-up women cannot go back and change everything in their past sex-experience, but they can become a good advisors for their own children, prepare them for such a remarkable moment and recall your teenage history that always rises a smile on your face. This way, these facts are of your interest as well. To say nothing about your unexperienced friend or niece who will also need a piece of advice from you.
These facts will make every girl prepared mentally and physically to the first intimacy and consequently make your first night unforgettable. So, keep reading and find out something new and useful for you.

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1. Feel yourself up your valley

You are completely ready, when you can put off your clothes in front of him in the daylight and feel at ease. If there is still some shade of shyness between both of you, awkward, painful and want-to-forget will be the words to describe your first experience.

2. Give and take

Remember that you both have to enjoy the process. That is why, it is necessary to think about your partner. Each of you deserves satisfaction. Do not be as cold as the Snow Queen waiting for your man to please you.

3. There is nothing shameful or weird about an orgasm

If you feel the need to scream or moan loudly to get the full satisfaction, do not restrain yourself. (Only if his relatives or friends do not crowd the next room)

4. You need not sex just to be cool

It is impossible to imagine how many girls lost their virginity with wrong guys and in wrong time. Just for the friends to be jealous or finally become an adult. Those are the silly girls’ excuses. If you cannot find at least one objective reason to start living a sex life, better do not.



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5. Painful

Discomfort may be felt during first sex. Try not to tense the intimate muscle. Otherwise, you will feel more pain and your man inconvenience.

6. …or unpainful

Some girls are just lucky and virginal membrane is torn very easily, without pain. If a guy is clever enough, he will be be gentle and careful of your pain.

7. A suitable moment

Sometimes you are almost ready to give yourself up, but bang! – a period or a flu. No reasons to worry, especially if your man humiliates or argues you for that. Be happy that there was nothing between you two yet. Have sex later, but with the one who will respect and satisfy.

8. Sex may ruin your relationships.

If you are still the fan of “Friends with Benefits” starring Justine Timberlake, forget about it in your real life and do not sleep with a friend, unless you can imagine him to be your husband.
Talking about your date, you are never secured from a womanizer. The relationships with such type of men will finish the moment he will see you naked. Be sure about your man or at least be ready for such a turn.

9. You may change your opinion about your partner

A little amount of women knows that their feelings may disappear as well as the men’s after the intimacy. On the other hand, maybe it was just a desire to have sex with him. Do not worry. You have a full right to act like the men from the previous point. Finish it now. Tomorrow will be too late.

10. The first sex will not change your personality

The virginity is not a kind of a sign of whether a woman is a good or a bad person. A man can be flattered that you waited for him for 20 years, but making religion of it is not trendy anymore. What is more you will hardly feel like an adult. A single process cannot in a blink of an eye turn you into a woman.

11. Sex is dirty

And I am not talking about the language, but the physiological process itself. It can be rather disgusting for girls. You do not know how to take off a condom in a right way and how to get rid of a bloodstain on a sheet. Do not worry. I am sure you both will find a way!


Thanks to our friends from date a lonely lady for providing this article.

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